Jealousy comes from a place of limitedness. When I am jealous it is because I think there is a limited amount of love out there and somebody else is going to take my share away from me. But then I thought about it. Has loving someone new ever changed the way I felt about anybody? No, I just love another person. My feelings for the others can’t be changed, I already love them. In fact, I am just creating more love by loving someone else!
It feels like relationships are changing and lines are being erased. The language hasn’t caught up with it yet, but we can help that. This is another example of learning to love the grey area.